More Than Just Communication
This summer, I went to India to visit my grandparents to celebrate their 50th anniversary. It was honestly a surreal experience. I got to meet those relatives who somehow knew me even though I hadn’t known them, held me when I was a baby, and had countless pictures with me that I had never seen before. I got to see my cousins whom I hadn’t seen in years, and spend time with family I barely got to see. However, as time went on into the party, one thing became especially clear during my visit. Whenever they’d always talk in clear Telugu with that typical Telugu accent, I’d always respond in either English or extremely broken Telugu with an accent I could never develop at home. Occasionally, it felt like my brother and I were on a different planet than everyone else. It felt like conversations they had amongst themselves came much more naturally than the forced slow-spoken conversations that they had with me. Although my relatives were always kind and welcoming to me, I couldn’t hel...